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I quit over $40/Vent (stretch to call it money-related)

October 27th, 2014 at 06:58 am

Not from a paying job, but from a volunteer position I held. As a member of the Pastoral Council/Parish Board that consults with the pastor of our parish on all aspects of business.

One of the things that I did was to write up articles for our weekly bulletin which showcased parishioners and their works of service both within and outside the community. For example, the woman who coordinates PADS with other churches in the town I live, and the man who heads up the Pro-Life Committee. I think I'm able to do a fairly good job sticking to the information (I am rather a Pro-Choice sort of gal, while I hope that everyone makes the right choice in their personal lives, as a therapist I worked with too many broken people to believe that one blanket statement is everyone's truth.)

This last write-up I did was about my friend's organization which I wrote about in a previous post. My friend didn't want to talk about herself, rather the people who have been helped by her organization (to bring solar powered light to the remote regions of the Philippines). In my one page article (single-spaced, mind you) I wrote the sentence: "The cost to bring light to a family in the Philippines is $40 for two years." Just as plain as that.

The Bulletin Proofer flagged my article and stated it should remove that sentence or appear under "Stewardship". Since this is something I'm fairly passionate about (this organization), I let the secretary know that if they pulled that sentence out (which I consider is information rather than a "fund-raising pitch") that they didn't have my permission to run the article. Well, they ran the article because it would have been too difficult to fill that full page.

Well, the President of the Board who micro-manages the entire Board, found out and accused me of using this platform to assert my own agenda. It was one sentence about the cost. And I was told that I am not serving the parish because I didn't agree with them (mind you this was the proofers opinion and no one on staff).

So, I have concluded that it is best for me to just be done. I am struggling a bit because in some ways it seems petty. But the accusation was pretty clear. And I would think this man knows me fairly well.

But then again he doesn't really like me because 1) I've studied at a non-Catholic Seminary, and 2) I don't exactly fit the Mother Walton or Mother Ingalls persona.

So I'm going to have a chat with our Pastor and let me know that its just not a good fit. I expect he'll argue with me and not be thrilled; however, I volunteer in plenty other capacities.

For standing my ground on $40, I'm out. But that's OK.

I really just needed to type this out. Couldn't do it over in the other corner of the blogosphere because I'm not anonymous there.

7 Responses to “I quit over $40/Vent (stretch to call it money-related)”

  1. creditcardfree Says:

    Good for you standing your ground!

  2. CB in the City Says:

    I would quit, too. It is the proofer that's wrong. A statement about cost is not a solicitation. That is over-vigilance. (I bet they'll have a really hard time finding a writer as good as you are, too!)

  3. Kiki Says:

    Good for you!

    As a side note, I asked my sisters to make a donation to wattsoflove for my Christmas gift. I beyond blessed and need for nothing. I will make sure to let you know so that we can help you reach your goal!!

  4. wowitsawonderfullife Says:

    Good for you!

  5. FrugalTexan75 Says:

    That was really beyond what the proofer should've done. I think you made a good decision.

  6. Looking Forward Says:

    Good choice! It is their loss and now you don't have to deal with the stress/time commitment anymore. Smile

  7. Tabs Says:

    I don't know what that means exactly, but if it's that important, then I am glad you are bowing out. Sounds like a lot of drama though.

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